Think Beyond the Game
Transform Soccer Sessions Into the Bedrock of Children Development
                        Coaching soccer to create skillful players is the traditional way of coaching. Coaching to develop future leaders and prepare kids for life is a new dimension of coaching. The coach's approach to soccer determines the destiny of the children in the soccer community. Therefore, the coach's job is to create the appropriate personal growing environment for children.
The United States Soccer Federation (USSF) figured out a brilliant approach to create a developmental environment to provoke thoughts with a guiding question and emphasize fun sessions that can tone down the frustrating learning process. The USSF coaching philosophy is a great way to educate children because it forces coaches to step over the horizon and figure out how to lead the player, team, and the coach themselves.
After leading myself for so many years, every action or thought forces me to reflect and transform my life into a series of lessons I learned. It's easy to learn when it's fun to learn, but it's essential to stay focused when it turns hard or even painful. The trick is to figure out the child's unique pathway to create a direction and then learn to enjoy and embrace the discovery. It is a never-ending process, and there are more life skills to learn than time to teach. Therefore, personal development needs direction and must be hand-picked according to the individual interest of the child. This self-development will guide children to make quality micro-decisions in the future.
The key to teaching creativity is to retain discovery. Therefore, to help children bring out the proper quality choice again in the future, coaches use guiding questions to get the player involved in the obstacle. The questions must define success and core values of life development in order to serve them for a lifetime as a compass. It is important to define success and core values in the early age of the child because as life goes by, these principles will keep them in the right direction and shape their gut feelings towards successful decisions. Of course, laying down the bedrock of life development is more complex than asking questions, but it is an excellent tool to start supporting a child's discovery.
                        
                       Children Development
- Action
 - Discovery
 - Safety
 - Reality Imitation
 - Challenging
 - Tailored Support
 - Questioning
 - Learning
 - Imagination
 - Fun Play
 - Chaos
 
      
              
                        
                            
                       
                             
                        Nobody explained what peer pressure was back in the day and I did not understand what eventually created my success: work with my father to become one of the top craftsmen in the world or to go and play outside. Nobody taught children how to distinguish success from a scam. Because there was no helping hand to show the way, I felt frustrated and nervous to navigate my life with no target, direction, or map. Some parents see the child as a problem instead look at it as a solution. I was trying so hard to be a solution, but I was destined to fail without any guides or advice from the heart..